why is the river so full of the fools ??

salam and hi.

 just a little bit of sharing. just when through this piece of reading. think you guys should check it out too. ;D

http://www.scribd.com/doc/31885379/Why-is-the-River-so-Full-of-Fools-Rule-One

it's okay to fail, once

salam and hi.

you failed for the first time, doesn't mean you are failing again later.

that is what i've learnt today. not really learn it today, but more to being reminded of . for sure, everybody must have known about this, rite? but in my current situation, it's crutial for me to remind myself that it's okay if i failed, once. but from there, i must encourage myself, push the enthusiasm to the top gear, and keep moving on. i must try my very best not to fail again. it's a must to try hard. i remembered, when i was dejected from receiving the petronas scholarship, dad consoled me. he said, it's okay to look back at your past. but never stop there. i'm afraid you might get stucked. thanks ayah. i shall treasure your word until the last breath i hold. and mum said, when you have this obstacale ahead of you, do not be afraid and never surrender. believe in yourself there's thousands more ways to achieve your goal. after all, life is about fighting. fighting for what you aim. what you want your future to be. despite all that, we must never forget, why we, human are created by Allah SWT. it's to worship Him. only Him. and that's what we do. searching for the mardhatillah. believe me, when we take good care of hablunminallah, then Allah SWT will take care the rest for us. (:

dush ! best kene hentam time brain wash IS (:

salam semua.

pagi tadi, masa kelas ISLAMIC STUDIES, ada la selingan sikit. masa ni, kami kene "brain wash" dgn ustazah. Alhamdulillah, itu satu peringatan dari Allah, yang disampaikan melalui ustazah terchenta. heee. :D itu tandanya, Allah SWT masih sayang pada kita semua. bukan la nak ulang balik, apa yang ustazah dah cakap, tapi benda baik elok dikenang selalu, kan?

sebagai seorg wanita, apa yg ustzh sampaikan mmg betul betul berguna dan terkena. dush! dush! terngiang -ngiang kata kata ustazah, yg berbaur peringatan, PEREMPUAN, JANGAN JADI MURAH SANGAT. JANGAN DUK BUAT JUMBO SALE. kelakar, memang kelakar. tapi tapis balik kata kata tu. cuba renung renungkan. kalau masyarakat boleh keluarkan statement mcm tu skali ; murah, jumbo sale, apa maknanya tu? mana maruah dan kehormatan wanita? senang dipijak pijak sampai lumat. ya ukhti, sedarlah, memang itu realiti. memang itu persepsi sosial terhadap wanita zaman skrg. murah. nauzubillah, mohon dijauhkan dari kita semua.
saya tdk berniat utk mengenakan sesiapa atau nak highlight kesalahan sesiapa, sedangkan saya sendiri pun masih belum sempurna. tapi dari kaca mata sendiri, inilah pekara perkara yang mendorong masyarakat utk melabel wanita dgn labelan yang tak sepatutnya ::

-chatting dgn lelaki tnp sebab (by any mean)

-klu dah berckp lelaki, mak aih, ayuuuu !

-pakaian yang body hugging.

-gesture (bak kata ustzh)

-pandangan mata (lelaki saja saja tgk perempuan/ sebaliknya mcm dah biasa je; tapis la sket pandangan mata tuh.. )

-hilai tawa yg sangat la nyaring esp girls (aku pn same. dush! dush!)

-klu jumpa lelaki yang kita kenal, kita straight away tegur dia even kita tak de pape pun nk ckp. malu la sket weyh... tu bukan kawan perempuan kita nak main tegur sesuke hati dn perasaan.

-hah. ni yg sgt sgt menjadikan wanita tu murah, even pada pandangan wanita lain. ade ke patut ber"loving-loving" secara public and anymous. ok, dah la bercouple. nak pgl syg abg or what so ever jgn la secara terang terangan. geli weyhh. HARAM.

entahlah. kalau nk dilistkan semua, bnyk la jugak. me, myself pun tdk sempurna. tpi tak salah kan klu nak mengingatkan diri sendiri dan  di samping tu, share dgn kawan kawan. (: hopefully, antara komuniti kita, akan sentiasa ada sahabat yang dpt dijadikan rujukan dan tiang utk kita berpaut andai kata kelak kita rebah atau tersungkur. insya-Allah. moga istiqamah.

dah tu, bile dh ckp psl perempuan ni, mesti la kene sentuh sikit psl lelaki kan? ustzh pun ada ckp td, lelaki kena la amanah. kalau kami ni dah buat salah, terbabas sikit, cepat cepat la ingatkan kami. sebelum kami tersasar terus dari landasan. jangan asyik nak mengorat je. save your love for the future. kn lagi best kalau nak bercinta cinta pada landasan yang halal? dapat pahala lagi. kami ni, kaum hawa. sudah tertulis pada lembaran fitrah, adam pemimpin kami, ketua keluarga kami. tapi jangan nak terlebih-lebih pulak. kami ni masih di bawah parents. cuma, lebih baik kalau saling mengingatkan. tak gitu?

hawa tidak dijadikan dari kepala adam

sebab hawa bukan utk dijadikan junjungan

hawa tidak dijadikan dari kaki adam

sebab hawa bukan utk dibuat alas

tapi hawa dijadikan dari rusuk adam

dari sisinya utk dilindungi

dekat dengan hati utk disayangi.

[[ni bukan verse asal tau. yg ori, ada dlm novel adam&hawa]]

3.30 pagi dah.

salam.

feel like i wanna blurb out something here. tp memandangkan jarum jam dh terlentik ke pukul 3.30 pagi, i think it's the best if i continue later, rite? heeee. :DD

selamat berjuang di rantauan kehidupan.

wow ! how time has dragged me so far..

serious s**t. it's july already. and i felt like it was only yesterday that i left home for UTP.